I am not good enough for her. She is too beautiful for me. I don’t think i have what it takes to maintain a long term relationship with her. She is always surrounded by handsome guys. I am too ugly for her.
Overcoming a challenge like this require a great deal of “mental make-over”. You need to apply the mental equivalent of the dedication and practice you put into developing your abs, to overcome the in-secured mindset that have always made you feel others are better than you. The following steps will serve as a guide to guarantee you victory over insecurity:
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Love Yourself: Pause, take a deep breath and do a deep self-assessment. Highlight the parts of yourself, both your body and your inner self, that you don’t like. Take a look at these parts of you, and say sweet words to these “ugly parts of your personality.” See them for the imperfect parts of you that they are, deserving of love as a friend who is imperfect also deserves love. Think about how you’d treat this imperfect friend, and be the same way toward yourself. Believe in yourself, care for yourself. Embrace all the parts of you, and see the beauty in them. They are the tiny bits that make up your unique personality.
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Stop comparing yourself with others: Comparing yourself with others is the easiest way to bring yourself down. It harms your physical, mental and emotional state. Instead of comparing yourself with others, simply resort to appreciating them when you think of them. Be happy that they are having a good time, celebrate their successes with them. They are on a completely different path from you, and just like you, they can also have a great time every once in a while. Watch them come around to wish you well very soon
Like you noticed, these steps does not involve doing anything to/for your partner. It revolves around YOU. yes YOU. You are the way out of your insecurity. Take your hand and start your journey to a good level of self-esteem now.
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