To keep your relationship fresh requires hard work and commitment. Though you and your partner can continue to love each other dearly, it is necessary to spice up your relationship.
Follow these simple tips to spice up your relationship:
1. Make love in new positions
Having sexual intercourse the same old way can make it feel like a routine, and the more you mix things up, the more likely you and your partner desire it more often.
When you make love to each other, make a goal of not having sex in your usual position, instead, find a completely new way to be turned on.
2. Get it on in new places
You and your partner can make love in a new place, this will spice up your relationship automatically. A new place could be anything from a new corner of your bedroom to a hotel or even a camping tent.
3. Go to a lingerie store together
Don’t feel embarrassed about taking this trip together. When you go to the lingerie store together, you will be turned on by buying things you will use or wear in the bedroom.
Dress up when you go to the store. Hold hands with your partner. It may feel a little silly, but it’s also hot.
4. Try something new together
Being adventurous is not all about having sexual intercourse in adventurous ways. You and your sweetheart can spice up your relationship by stepping out of your comfort zones and trying something wild and new together.
5. Always look ready for romance
Always look fresh. If you are trying to spice up your relationship, it means that you are open to the idea of having sex whenever and wherever.
You should shower often, and keep your body fresh and clean so you don’t decline sex because you haven’t had a bath in a while.
6. Go on romantic dates
Once you look the part, you can act the part. If you’re dressed up and ready for romance, then it’s time to do something romantic.
Going on romantic dates will spice up your relationship and make you more eager to get it on once the date is over.
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7. Make romance a part of your daily life
No matter where you are, you can always find ways to add more romance to your relationship. You have to learn how to think and act romantically anywhere you are.
- Make romantic gestures. As a lady, kiss your loved one at unexpected times and tell him how amazing he is or how he looks. As a guy, be a gentleman. Pull out chairs, open doors, and give your woman her coat if she’s cold, or even if she insists she isn’t cold.
- Be romantic even when you’re apart. Whether you’re both off at work or if one of you is away for a few days, don’t forget to send a text message, email, or voicemail that says how much you love your significant other.
- Spend more time just kissing. Spicing up your relationship isn’t just about making love. It’s about enjoying every little thing about your loved one, which includes his tender kisses.
8. Get naughty with food
The right food can make spice up your relationship and make your sex life naughtier and much more exciting. Don’t be afraid to get naughty with your favorite sexy foods.
- Suck on a popsicle, mint, or an ice cube and then either kiss or pleasure your significant other. Enjoy the new sensation.
- Have dessert for dinner. Put it in naughty parts of your body and have your significant other eat it off of you.
- Put little chocolates on your significant other’s naked body and eat it off. Don’t use your hands — only your mouth.
9. Talk naughty
Naughty talks can help you feel more excited and will put some of the spice back into your relationship. Whether you’re giving your lover some dirty talk under the sheets or if you’re texting or talking on the phone, dirty talk can help put you in the mood for doing the dirty.
10. Be spontaneous
Your relationship will be more exciting and spiced up if you know that you can hook up at any moment.
- If you want to have sex, then go for it. If the urge strikes, don’t be afraid to hook up, unless your spouse is really not feeling it.
- If you’re in the mood, kiss your spouse or move in for a make out session in an unexpected place.
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