Do some shavings
If you’d like to do some grooming on your genitals, try to do it the day before to avoid any irritation during sex. You can also shave your legs and your armpits, but again, only if you want to.
Take a shower, brush your teeth, and put on deodorant
You want to look (and smell) good during sex, so take some time to clean up before you meet with him.
Keep in mind that if you have a vagina, you don’t need to wash it out with soap. You can lightly scrub your vulva with your hands and some water, but using soap or harsh cleansers can disrupt your pH balance and lead to irritation.
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The last thing you want is to be distracted by a full bladder
When the moment strikes, take a pause and head to the bathroom really quickly just to go pee. You can use the time to freshen up and make sure you’re both looking and smelling good, too.
Put on lingerie or take a luxurious bath
Do something that makes you feel cool and confident to boost your self-image before you have sex. Something that makes you feel more attractive will put you in the right headspace, and you’ll probably feel more ready to get intimate with him afterward.
You could also listen to a sensual song, do makeup, or get all dressed up in a new outfit.
Dim the lights and turn on some sensual music
If you really want to get into it, try lighting a few candles, too. The more sexy the environment looks and feels, the better headspace you’ll be in when it comes time to do the deed.