Deciding to go into marriage is a big decision. Make sure you evaluate yourself and think about life beyond the wedding day.
Marriage is a lifetime journey, so, do not rush into it. Take time to enjoy the process of your relationship and when you are sure you want to go into that lifetime commitment, then you can proceed.
Before deciding to say ‘I do’ to your life partner, take note of the following:
Evaluate your feelings separately from anyone else’s
Do not make marital choices based on your parents’ expectations or societal pressure. If you do, you are not marrying that person for the right reason and that is not a good start to a marriage.
Think about life beyond the wedding day
Wedding day is a big event and a celebration of the journey you are entering. However, marriage is beyond the wedding day ceremony, it is a lifetime thing and it is a school of learning.
So, make sure you are ready to do life with the person you want to get married to, because both of you will spend the rest of your lives together till death do you part.
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Don’t rush into either the acceptance or the rejection
There is courtship before marriage. Give yourself some time to feel a ‘yes’ or a ‘no’ with your whole body. Even if the answer isn’t a yes, it doesn’t necessarily mean you will not want to marry that person; it might just not be the right time.
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