Having a peaceful relationship is healthy for you and your partner. Therefore, you need to find ways to bring more peace in your relationship.
With things getting more chaotic, the relationship should be a peaceful and warm place for people to come back to and be vulnerable.
In a healthy relationship, a lot of effort, compromise and understanding is required to make things work out.
You and your partner need to focus more on understanding the perspectives of each other and embracing the differences, imperfections and changes. This enables you both to have a healthy and peaceful relationship. While it is important that we learn to prioritise ourselves, it is necessary to also seek ways to maintain peace in a relationship.
Here are some things to do to bring more peace in your relationship:
Tolerance: One of the biggest mistakes one makes in a relationship is expecting all their needs to be met by the partner. However, it is not humanely possible for a person to meet all the needs and wants of his partner.
Even for a secure partner, it is not possible. Hence, the need for one to make peace with the fact and find ways to meet one’s needs.
Imperfections: Being with a person comes with the unsaid rule of accepting their past traumas, triggers, past experiences, family dynamics and wounds. While it is beautiful to be in a romantic relationship, you should be ready to accept them with all of their traumas and triggers and find ways to soothe them.
Respecting the differences: In a relationship, people with contrasting perspectives can align only when they learn to respect their opinions. When a partner says no to something that they do not agree with, you should be mindful to respect their decisions.
Curiosity: Instead of assuming or overthinking, you should become curious of their behavioural patterns and find ways to learn more about them.
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